Imagine if you could quickly scan a room, and a glowing red arrow would appear above every self-absorbed and potentially dangerous narcissist in the room. That would be an incredible superpower, wouldn’t it? Well, we don’t quite have those powers yet, but by using your own discernment and some common red flags, you can come incredibly close. This way, you don’t really have to worry too much about going on a second date with a self-absorbed narcissist. There’s some good stuff here that I want to get to, and I don’t want to waste any time, so let’s get to it.
So today, we’re talking about how to spot a narcissist on a first date, and I want to be very clear that we are not diagnosing narcissistic personality disorder, and we’re not labeling anyone as a malignant narcissist, especially not someone we just met.
The purpose of this article is to look for those red flags and use our own intuition to determine whether this person is someone who might be worth a second chance or not. Because if you’ve known a narcissist, if you’ve ever dated a narcissist, or if you’ve married a narcissist, I’m sure there have been moments where you wish you had a rewind button, where you could just go back to that first date and just review everything, just watch the tapes and see if there are any clues that this person may have become the emotionally abusive person that you’ve come to know.
And a lot of times, these warning signs are not only extremely subtle, but they could also point to something else, especially nerves. So that’s why your own discernment and your intuition in the moment play such a major role in deciding whether somebody is so highly narcissistic, or seems so highly narcissistic, that it’s time to walk away. So let’s get to it.
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