Number 3: They obsessively indulge in corn late at night.
One of the most hidden but damaging habits is their late-night escape into what I’ll call “corn hair.” Instead of choosing closeness with you, they turn to a glowing screen. Night after night, you lie there alone while they watch fantasy after fantasy. You feel rejected, unseen, and unwanted, while they feed a secret appetite. I’m talking about adult content here. This isn’t just about watching something inappropriate—it’s about choosing a fake connection over a real one with you.
Over time, what happens? It destroys intimacy. You start doubting yourself. You wonder if you’re attractive enough, if you’re good enough, or if they’re comparing you to things that aren’t even real. The narcissist doesn’t reassure you. Instead, they deny it, make excuses, or try to make you feel crazy for noticing.
What makes it worse is the hypocrisy. During the day, they demand loyalty, admiration, and attention from you. But at night, they break the trust and closeness of the relationship. It’s like they’re saying you’re not enough. And while you lie awake feeling abandoned, they chase a secret obsession that leaves you feeling empty every night.
Read More: 10 Weird Behaviors of People Abused By Narcissists.
Number 4: They create the opposite conditions you need for sleep.
This habit feels petty, but it is calculated. If you want the room cool, they will make it hot. If you want darkness, they will turn the lights on. If you crave silence, they will find a way to introduce noise. It’s not about preference; it’s about making sure you do not get what you need. At first, you may tell yourself it’s just differences, right? Couples often have different sleeping habits. One likes the blanket, the other does not. One wants a fan, the other does not.
But over time, you see the pattern. It’s not about compromise; it’s about the exact opposite. Whatever you need to sleep, they deny it. They go out of their way to reverse it. And that is what makes it so evil. They do not care about the temperature. They do not care about the light.
They don’t even care about the noise, honestly. They care about your discomfort. The entire point is to make sure you never feel fully safe, relaxed, or rested. They remind you that even your most basic needs will be sabotaged—right down to the conditions in which you try to close your eyes.
Recommended Book: How To Kill A Narcissist: Debunking The Myth Of Narcissism And Recovering From Narcissistic Abuse.
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