Number 3: Private Revenge – Marking Territory with Bodily Fluids.
When they feel disrespected, challenged, hurt, or rejected, narcissists may secretly retaliate. Instead of exploding in front of you, they do something worse: private revenge. This revenge is hard to prove and violates your space in disgusting ways. For instance, they might spit in your food, pee in your closet, smear things on your toothbrush, or soil your bed sheets. It’s disgusting and humiliating, and they do it secretly. They mark your things like animals, but even animals show loyalty. Narcissists aim to degrade you. They want to contaminate your space with their hatred, betray your trust, and create a hidden power imbalance where only they know they’ve tainted your world. It’s their unseen way of showing disrespect.
You may sense something is off—that shirt smells weird, that food tastes wrong, that bathroom has a strange vibe—but you dismiss it because who would do something so wild? That’s what you will think. A narcissist would. And they would do it with a smirk. They may never admit it, but they enjoy imagining you using something they have desecrated, eating what they spit on, wearing what they urinated near. It gives them a secret thrill. You will never know, but they will, and that is enough for them.
Read More: 5 Odd Things a Narcissist Does when they hit Collapse.
Number 4: They do black or dark magic on you.
This one isn’t metaphorical. Many narcissists are obsessed with control, and when manipulation no longer works in the physical world, they try to hijack the spiritual one. They reach out to dark energy practitioners, black magicians, evil priests—anyone who promises to bind your life, curse your money, ruin your health, or cause chaos in your relationships. And yes, they pay for it. They whisper your name over candles. They send your photos to be hexed. They bury items connected to you in graveyards. They don’t see it as evil; they see it as insurance. In their mind, you wronged them. Okay, you dared to leave. You exposed them; you cut off their supply, and that kind of rebellion cannot go unpunished.
So instead of healing, they go hunting for dark rituals, for symbols of power, for secret tools that give them the illusion they are still in charge. Some of them do it alone, lighting black candles, doing incantations from the internet, or writing your name in red ink to banish your energy. Others pay professionals who specialize in psychic attacks. They don’t care about karma or the spiritual consequences of all of this. All they want is for your life to stop moving forward. And the most twisted part: when your life gets better, they panic. They start new rituals. They consult new shamans because your peace is their pain.
Suggested Book: Healing from Hidden Abuse: A Journey Through the Stages of Recovery from Psychological Abuse.
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